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Saturday, February 14, 2009 . 11:53 PM

I woke up this afternoon by a loud bang.
I opened my room door only to realise that damn, the adults are at war again. Not like it's anything new. But it's at the wrong time.
Why must it be on 14th February? I thought 14th February is the day to celebrate Love?
I was quite reluctant to attend school for fear that the adults will end up hitting one another but on the other hand, I don't wanna end up being caught in between of their war.
I cannot stand it when things start to turn nasty.
Tables banged, cupboards banged, doors banged, EVERYTHING!
Why can't adults settle their disputes in a nicer way? Is venting anger on someone else or banging tables here and there a good way to let off your anger?

Prior to the above question, adults always think they are right. Why do I say so?
When we, the kids, slammed our door, we'll get a big scolding. When we vent our anger on the table or whatever things you can find in the house, we'll get yet another scolding.
So, am I right to say that if the adults are angry, they are by default allowed to vent their angers on anything?
Well, that's always the case isin't it? Which child would actually defy their parents?
Maybe to a certain extent, some child will dare to even go against their parents.
For me, it's a "special" case because I've never lived with my parents since young.

It's true that every household has their own individual problems.
I always wonder when other families are at war, do they bring the kids in to the picture as well?
I remembered few years back, I received an awesome email about family. What does family actually stands for?
Most of you might have already known, it actually stands for Father And Mother I Love You!
The person who came up with this is indeed awesome!

Though I don't know how long the war will last or how many more wars there will be, I believe God has his reasons for placing me in this family.
And nope, please do not think I'm very pitiful or am asking for sympathy, (all you wreaklings who looked down on me or are happily smiling/laughing, you can go on and continue doing what you are doing because you are only making me stronger and I got to thank YOU for that) I'm happy with my life and I'm glad I've learnt to be independent through all these incidents.

Love is in the air will be up in the next entry. :)

g-ladies spoke